In December we had a lot of rain. A. Lot. Of. Rain. So much rain that the whole barnyard was nothing but mud and by our shed was a good six inches deep! My poor horses were muddy from their knees down and when they rolled around of course they got mud all over their sides, necks and faces. Of course I did everything I could to keep them dry and clean but nothing was really good enough to keep the dirt and mud off! They wore sheets at night when it was warm and blankets as it got colder. But the mud. So. Much. Mud. *shudder*
Cue a few days ago. We got around three feet of snow. Yes. Three feet of snow, in a day and a half! Thank you Blizzard Jonas! While it was super tough walking up and down the hill to feed, water, throw hay, and just check on my girls, it was of course worth it to be a good steward of what we’ve been given!
This morning I’m walking on my path (stomped down snow thanks to my husband!) and I get to the gate. Both girls were waiting for me and of course they were *starving*! I put their buckets down and noticed something. No mud or dirt on their faces or necks! As I’m looking them each over I also notice how white Leaha’s feet look and how clean the outside of their hooves look. I mentally flashed back to a few weeks ago to the mud. We’ve gone from tremendous amounts of mud to tremendous amounts of snow, but the snow has cleaned everything!
Immedietly the song “You Make All Things New” came into my head. How many times do we hear how “dirty” our souls get and how Christ is able to make them pure again?
Last night I was very anxious about Leaha. She hadn’t been very interested in eating. Well she was far more interested in what was going on behind us on s hill than eating her food! My instincts knew this. My emotions did not! A few good friends of mine helped tremendously but this morning seeing both mares waiting for me was the biggest relief!!! It got me thinking of how I need to put more into God’s hands. Christ is able to use priests to forgive sins, turn water and wine and bread into The Precious Body and Blood of Christ, and change the hardest of hearts to His love and kindness. I used to think God wouldn’t want to hear about my day. He wouldn’t want to know why my struggles prevented me from making dinner on time. Not when people are suffering from cancer or incurable diseases! But God loves each of us and wants to be a part of all of our lives! Just like I enjoy walking with each of my little ones and hearing about how they have been, God wants to walk with us from day to day and hear about our day.
Let God bring newness into your life. Tomorrow morning give your day to Christ. See what He is capable of.
Here in Southern Pennsylvania we are in the beginning hours of snow storm “Jonas”. I. Love. Snow. Sledding, shoveling, trudging over a mile at night because I had to park my car at the bottom of our road, and of course, building a snowman 😍☃❄️!!!
Of course the horses still need to be fed, and the dogs still need to go outside, and we still have things to get done in the house. Tomorrow we will have snow to shove and move with the tractor!
With so many cold weather activities going on for at least the next two days, I needed hot chocolate. Our oldest daughter was asking for some and I love having hot chocolate for dessert! So I got out the cocoa powder and started brain storming.
I found the sweetened condensed milk hanging out in my cabinet and I thought “Why not?”. Poured it into a pot, rinsed the can with skim milk, added the skim milk, and finally added a quarter cup of cocoa! Using a whisk I stirred in the cocoa and stirred/ whisked until the ingredients were combined. I added some water as well; I’d say around half a cup. You could add more if needed but I like thicker hot cocoa 😁😁😁 my oldest enjoyed it with her two marshmallows in it and our middle daughter liked it until it got spilled all over the sofa cushion. My husband and I really liked it!
Heres hoping for a safe blizzard for all!!! Enjoy it!! Go build a snowman ☃☃☃ come inside and enjoy some hot chocolate!
This is another one of those nights that I’m wide awake when I should be sound asleep. Watching movies in bed, listening for any sound of my babies waking up and needing me. Texting my husband while he works to save or care for people.
Isn’t it odd how our brains seem to run more when we’re asking them to shut down? I often wonder what God wants me to do with this time. Should I pray? Should I lay down and close my eyes and just rest? I did find an empty journal given to me by one of my dad’s sisters which was exciting for me! I can start writing some dreams in it and tape or glue pictures in it as I want. I have even drawn up a plan for what to do with our front yard. We can’t use it for the horses but we can garden or play sports! Here is a very rough drawing:
Baseball diamond and garden area!
What’s not written on this paper however, are the hours of play, learning, experience, and joy that will come from getting to grow food, entertain family and friends, and even grow closer together as a family! This garden plan is very ambitious. It may not happen like this at all in fact! But it makes me feel good knowing I have some kind of plan in mind and now it is also on paper.
Do you have something you’d like to do, perhaps in your prayer life or family life, that you have been thinking on for months? Years? Go write it down. Show it to someone- anyone!- else. Ask them what they think. Then show it to someone else. I’d absolutely pray about it. Here’s the part I’m struggling with… Then. Go. Do. It.
While on a few community Facebook pages, people have asked for “kid friendly” church recommendations. This generally means that they want a parish that the kids either have a service geared towards them or they leave the “adult” service for something else. I have always been puzzled as to why you wouldn’t want your child with you during Mass- or during a service!
My husband is not Catholic, however when he does not work he comes to Mass with us! He encourages the two older children to sit still and pray while I lead the music. Our youngest tends to wander around the Choir Loft, but the Folk Group is more like extended family at this point so they all enjoy a visit from our little man! Even if they did not love seeing our three kids at Mass, I would take them anyway!
An engineer friend of mine has a wonderful comparison. She says if we expect our children to some day be able to learn calculus, we first must teach them addition, division and how to find the area of a circle. Why then should it not follow, that if we want faith filled young adults, that we do not include them in our Liturgy? Pope Francis has made several statements recently about bringing children to Mass and how beautiful it is to God! My own Pastor loves hearing the kids during his homily or Communion!
Shouldn’t our children see how much mommy and daddy need Christ? Shouldn’t they see how we worship? If we will be held accountable for our children’s faith when we die, why are we not putting more emphasis on our children joining us for services?
If you have switched parishes or denominations because you weren’t entertained or because you thought your children wouldn’t be entertained- I would encourage you to go back. Do we really go to church for entertainment? To socialize? Allow your kids to experience your faith with their eyes. To see mommy cover her face in prayer after receiving Our Lord in the Eucharist. To see Daddy open his song book and sing (yes; even if it’s off key!!!)! Allow them to have faith as children!
If we expect Theologians for the next generation, we first need to plant the seeds of faith in our babies.
May you have a blessed week and Enjoy Mass together!
I’m more than a week late but luckily every new day brings new opportunities!
I’d like to read more. I’d love it if my 3.5 year old daughter finally decides to figure out this potty thing. I want to ride my horse more. Considering I ride maybe twice a month this isn’t a difficult achievement!
I’d love to be there more for friends and family. It’s hard to drop everything and go to someone’s house or go for coffee with three little ones in tow! But I’d like to try.
What are your goals for the new year? Have you made a list? I’m considering a “dreams journal”. Basically you write down goals- short term, long term, impossible, and maybe even daily- that you, you and your spouse, or you and your family want to achieve. That way when life is getting to you and your goals feel far out of reach you have a physical object to ground you again and put you on your path. I have a lot of impossible dreams. Two of them are: riding internationally and owning and operating a high school for kids who ride. A magnet school if you will. I think about these goals daily. But the idea of having a physical book with our goals and hopes written down or pasted in pictures or taped down sounds nice.
Now I need to go to the store and get a notebook for our dream journals…
May you enjoy health, joy, and God’s Blessings this Year!